When the Rules Keep Changing - STOP Playing the Game
Episode #116 Host: Tammy J. Bond
If you’re exhausted, it might not be the workload—it might be the "game." In this episode, Tammy J. Bond exposes a common but toxic leadership trap: the environment where success is only explained after the fact. When rules change midstream and expectations shift without notice, even the strongest leaders begin to shrink back, second-guess their decisions, and over-explain their value.
Tammy challenges you to stop being a "survivalist" and start being a strategist. Learn how to identify when agility has crossed the line into "power without accountability" and discover why refusing to chase moving targets isn’t quitting—it’s a prerequisite for great leadership.
In This Episode, You’ll Discover
- The Moving Target Trap: Why "agility" is often used as a mask for a lack of clarity and a refusal to be held accountable.
- When Confidence Becomes a Liability: The psychological shift that happens when people can no longer predict what success looks like.
- The "Airplane" Example: A real-world look at how leaders negotiate away their authority by not being in the room where decisions are made.
- Adaptability vs. Self-Betrayal: How to set boundaries that protect your health and your team’s momentum without being "difficult."
- The Proactive Reset: How to use "curious questioning" to force a pause and reset the rules of the game in your favor.
Tammy’s Sandbox Truths
"You cannot win in an environment where success is explained after the fact."
"Adaptability without boundaries is actually self-betrayal."
“You don’t lose authority overnight. You negotiate it away.”
Power Questions for Your "Sandbox Reset"
- For Self-Reflection: Am I currently rewarding outcomes that I never actually named for my team?
- For Strategy: Am I waiting for instructions to change, or am I taking responsibility for defining the goal?
- For Boundaries: What "moving target" am I currently chasing that I need to stop and name out loud?
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